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Tiffany
04-14-2004, 01:09 AM
dunno if this belongs here but....do u believe in love at first sight? i think that maybe it's possible but not very likely to happen.

Saberstar
04-14-2004, 01:14 AM
Not really. But I believe that there will always be one person out there for everyone.

Leknaat
04-14-2004, 01:15 AM
I believe you can be attracted to someone on first sight but I don't know about love....

Aoi Asahina
04-14-2004, 01:19 AM
I do not...

I believe in lust at first sight... there are plenty of guys that have captivated my imagination upon seeing them. But love for me is very cerebal, and I cannot change that. They have to have a spark behind their looks that stimulates me intellectually as well as physically, and that is very hard to find out on looks alone. It' s the hardest part, finding the real personality behind the eyes.

Lancet Jades
04-14-2004, 01:19 AM
I guess i do, but no matter what ways you can find love, i havent...

=/=/=/

Rick_dowg2099
04-14-2004, 01:31 AM
love is always a sad sub for me but its all good yeah i beleave in it but i dont think u should act on it..u should get to know the person real good first or u could be messin up trust me thats not cool...but anyway this pimp is goin to go pass out peace out ppl

Chaos Theory
04-14-2004, 02:01 AM
Not at all

its lust at 1st sight

The Wang Master
04-14-2004, 02:53 AM
Why must it be sight, that is a big problem to me. To judge the idea of falling in love on just one of the 5 senses is stupid and inhibiting.

I call my Liesel up, despite how much she hates the phone, just to hear her voice. That's what drew my attention, the sound of her voice. Still today I can run what she has said in my mind whenever I feel low, she makes me feel better.

Laggy
04-14-2004, 03:28 AM
i typed so much that i ran out of room...all for this topic..then i thought that somthing bad could come out of it...so i didnt post it..ill just say this

#1. yes i believe in love at first sight. but that only goes so far...i wont get into it

#2. i dont think that there is one person out there for everyone. i think that if you find the "right one" it still might not work out being anything can happen, and one of the 2 could fall out of love at any time..with that i think that they both being in love with the "right one" and lost...would still have another change of love

you could say that if you find the right one and it doesnt work then maybe it wasnt the "right one"?...

IMO that isnt true, i think that it would have been the "right one" for that time...and now you have to find the new "right one"

anyways thats how i feel about it..when trying to say it and NOT pissing anyone off...

Saberstar
04-14-2004, 03:29 AM
There's always a right person out there for you, you just don't know it. heck, you might not even end up meeting that person as well. It's just a rare case.

Laggy
04-14-2004, 03:33 AM
i think that your wrong man..but thats just me. see i have loved 3 girls in my life, lost to...now they where the "right one"..for the time..and now they arent the right one..but the more i say the more likly to get my girl mad at me lol...sorry babe,...but anyways

Saberstar
04-14-2004, 03:34 AM
That wasn't what I meant...those 3 chicks aren't the girl I meant...Heck, Tiff might not even be the right one but still..

Chicken Little
04-14-2004, 03:39 AM
i believe there was a study done about this and it proved that it did infact happen due to chemical responses in the individual thus proving love at first site as a true theory.

I however see it as a load of bs ^_^

I tend to look at it more like define what love is, you cant honestly do that so why bother trying to do so. If you supposedly love someone at first site you are obviously attracted to their physical being which would mean what part of your body are you thinking about? thats right mini me speaks yet again.

I prefer not to base things on looks alone, after all whats the point of having a pretty face if it speaks at the level of a preschooler.

Lancet Jades
04-14-2004, 11:29 AM
I dont base it solely on looks, OR intelligence. IF she's hot as hell, but an idiot, i wouldnt wanna be with her. and by the same token, if she's the smartest and most caring woman on the planet, but ugly as fu*k, i wouldnt want to be with her either.

As for soul mates, i don't beleive everyone has just one person they're meant to be with. I think there are several people out there who are your "potential" soul mates. And then, when you find one of them, there's love.

But, thats just my opinion of it all...

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Aoi Asahina
04-14-2004, 12:47 PM
In the days of creation man walked around with two heads and four arms and legs. One day their god got angery, and threw down thunderbolts and it hit every human which sperated them into two. They say that when that happened b/c they shared the same body they also shared the same soul. Later on in life they longed for their other half... the one that makes them whole... their soul mates. People wandered all over the world just to find the one who makes them complete...
THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE!!!

Lancet Jades
04-14-2004, 01:08 PM
In the days of creation man walked around with two heads and four arms and legs. One day their god got angery, and threw down thunderbolts and it hit every human which sperated them into two. They say that when that happened b/c they shared the same body they also shared the same soul. Later on in life they longed for their other half... the one that makes them whole... their soul mates. People wandered all over the world just to find the one who makes them complete...
THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE!!!
Yeah, but what are the odds of finding that person?

Aoi Asahina
04-14-2004, 01:13 PM
Slim for some.... FOR SOME...

The Wang Master
04-14-2004, 01:49 PM
Well most of you are under the age of 25, it's called patience. Hell I look at some old couples to day that have been together for 60 years so what does that say.

Most people these days don't know what they are looking for and will put finding love on the bottom of their list for finding a mate or someone "special" when really all they want is someone to come home to at the end of the day. You are not going to find what you aren't looking for, you'll just over look it. Stupid cynics.

Kaffee
07-19-2004, 10:51 AM
I believe in true love and love first sight, i also believe that love is blind. and sometimes deaf to my pleas.

Kurbee
07-19-2004, 07:07 PM
No, love at first sight is basically if you are attracted by looks, not personality

nightsavior
07-19-2004, 07:17 PM
i believe love at first sight or a first meeting can happen...it's just rare when it does

Laggy
07-19-2004, 07:20 PM
like i've said, you can look at someone and fall in love, but its not an easy task, because there iner self has to be glowing to the outside, where you look at them and know.. just know that there right for you, and it not really have to be fro the looks... it has happend to me..

also with meeting someone as night says, you cn meet someone, talk to them for hrs and never run out of anything to say, because there alot like you and like the same things, and it feels like you have known them forever, like old best friends re-meeting.. and then you fall in love, where all your friends think your crazy because you just met....

Lancet Jades
07-19-2004, 07:59 PM
like i've said, you can look at someone and fall in love, but its not an easy task, because there iner self has to be glowing to the outside, where you look at them and know.. just know that there right for you, and it not really have to be fro the looks... it has happend to me..

also with meeting someone as night says, you cn meet someone, talk to them for hrs and never run out of anything to say, because there alot like you and like the same things, and it feels like you have known them forever, like old best friends re-meeting.. and then you fall in love, where all your friends think your crazy because you just met....
Yeah, i kinda know how that is. Except, the couple of times i've been like that w/ a girl, they alreeady had someone :(

Anyways, i think love at 1st sight is something you cant really know until you've experienced it...