Theory of Love

[cid]

Love is a feeling of attraction to another. Never could one feel it unless attracted to another and never could it be understood unless felt. A strange feeling love is, like a feeling of nothingness yet so full of something. Whatever that is that is so much like nothing it is received as an instinct by the brain. One does not simply force a reaction of love, it has to be felt in the brain, heart, muscles and under your skin. The only, dare I say, forced love is one that is set between two people that were bonded by the blood that flows through their veins. This love is different; it’s a different feeling. The feeling is not the same as the one felt between two that are not bonded by birth. It is a feeling of caring and an eternal feeling of security for and by the other.

I'm really not sure, its such a confusing thing...

[Stormtrooper]

yes i heard about this... this... love thing lol

[Laggy]

your right, love is a paradox lol

[Stormtrooper]

paradox? what does that mean again?

[cid]

laggy doesn't even know what love is...like i said laggy, "never could it be understood unless felt."

[Laggy]

laggy doesn't even know what love is...like i said laggy, "never could it be understood unless felt."
you'd think that you might try to get to know me a little better before saying such things... I have been in love. When I say paradox, I mean it in the since that Love is full of Irony

[cid]

lol sorry for you of all people i would expect to know a joke when you see one... lol it was good though c'mon

[The Deity]

I completely disagree with your perception of love. Love is an emmotion so strong for someone that you put their well being before yours and you are always cocerned with them. You will basically do anything in your power to better them, even if you have to make sacrafices. Moreover, love is not just a feeling for someone you're attracted to, but I take it this is the sense you're applying it...

[cid]

yea basically thats it. And i would have to agree with that point; That it is an emotion so strong its just impossible for humans to comprehend

"A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness." - Dictionary.com

I kind of agree with that, but anyway. I think that im right with the difference between of loving a family member or "kin" and the love that is between two people who are not related at all, "girl - guy" relationship or gay lesbian relationships (whatever, i don't agree with with the "gay" thing, but i dont wanna start an argument here, this is not the place, so no one say aything about that) So back to the difference between kinship love, and, i need to give it a name....ummm...lol i got one, non-kinship love. Does anyone agree with me that they are like 2 different feelings?

[Kaffee]

Love has always eluded me for some reason. Now that I have found it, I can't explain how it happened. It had always been there, dormat for so long. I'm a big believer in fate, I was fated to fall in love, she's everything to me and has my whole heart. I don't know about all that said above me. But I do know this, when hear that voice in your head telling you to turn around and take a chance, listen to it, you might just find the love of a lifetime.

[The Deity]

Does anyone agree with me that they are like 2 different feelings?

Well yeah, but the same basic principle applies. Putting that one person at the front of your life, and trying to do whatever you can for them. The actual feeling you get aorund them is just different, and very difficult to explain.

[cid]

Yes, yes, completely agreed.