Why?

[Lancet Jades]

If you're a virgin, do you look forward to sex? And, if so, why?

And if you've had sex before, was it all that society makes it seem to be, or was it actually a letdown?

I guess i look forward to sex because its supposedly much better than jacking off =/

NOTE: I made this to get an honest apprasial of people's thoughts on this, not for random sex-talk.

[Laggy]

i looked forward to it because...well everyone said it was so damn good..

to me it was a letdown, it wasnt great, i can live without it to tell the truth, for me its just somthing that would be nice sometime

going from alot of sex alot, to no sex ever sucks, but it wont be as good as you think it should be

[sephiroth4eva]

lol... yea... i thought it was going to be like.... really .... god like... but meh.... like laggy said... if i couldnt have sex till i got married... that would be an issue .... but i could live with it. and i guess it all depends on ur gf... if she be puttin out or not...

[Setzophone]

well, i look forward to it and i know i'll be scared out of my mind but i just hope its a good experience. I'll wait tho, I want to wait till i get married so its extra special, and i don't really believe in pre-marital relations.

[Laggy]

well, i look forward to it and i know i'll be scared out of my mind but i just hope its a good experience. I'll wait tho, I want to wait till i get married so its extra special, and i don't really believe in pre-marital relations.
the longer the wait the more letdown you'll be, lol

[Lancet Jades]

the longer the wait the more letdown you'll be, lolWell, you never know. Just because your experience is one thing doesn't mean his won't be another. That's one of the reasons i made this thread: to find out everyone's opinions on sex.

[Laggy]

well, yeah i know, this is just how it was for me, and both of my brothers, and alot of my friends... i've never heard any great storys on the first time, to tell the truth...

it does get better each time, IMO....

[Wallie Wildo]

mes a virgin *cries* me looks forward to sex cause its supposed to be great

[Zelphiel]

And if you've had sex before, was it all that society makes it seem to be, or was it actually a letdown?



it's never been a letdown for me...

but, I'm sure some of the ones that I don't remember very well may have been.

[Laggy]

for what i had in mind for it to be, it was a letdown. dont get me wrong, i love sex.

[Lancet Jades]

it's never been a letdown for me...

but, I'm sure some of the ones that I don't remember very well may have been.

I guess it depends on a nubmer of factors =/

[Chicken Little]

lol everyones going by word of mouth

'hey jumping off a cliff to your doom is a great way to get a thrill'...no takers?

Yes i am and i look forward to it for the simple instant of the moment and the expression, to be wanted in that way by the one you want. A sense of fullfillment and wanting if you will.

[Rick_dowg2099]

i cant really remember the first time lolol but i was looking forward to it. the first 100 times where awesome but i think sex just to have sex is over rated..i dont think i could live forever without it...just make sure your first time is with a girl/boy you love cus its better that way

[Aoi Asahina]

when i was a virgin, i looked forward to it. [grew up around sex...]
but now that im not, hell no. it was an extreme let down [realyl the person, though i regret nothing]. i could do a whole lot better by myself

[The Wang Master]

Well I've talked to too many religious girls. All of them seem pro celebacy so I think I'll keep it in my pants just in case one of those no sex before marriage girls wants to marry me. They seem to only like the virgins. Like Aoi, I think I can do better myself. I have lube and calused hands.

Plus if I do get one of them there virgin christian girls she will most likely be really tight. Considering this one girl almost broke my finger when she was contracting, and she was pro sex. . .

anyfuckinghoo, most of the good feelings are in the clit, and I don't need my wang to stimulate that. Hell most girls don't need penetration.

Okay, in case you are wondering, I have a particular girl in mind when I think of the no sex virgin christian girls. And I wouldn't mind just waiting till we are married. . .cause I still gots masturbation.

[Saberstar]

I think Oral is a lot better then Anal...

[nightsavior]

i look forward to it but only with the girl i love. i mean sure sex is proably pleasurable (at least masturbation is) but i think it is overated and with stds around ppl have to be careful. while i do get horny at times its not on my top list of important must do things. lol.

[Aoi Asahina]

er... anal and oral are both good

[nightsavior]

yeah i fantasize about giving girls anal as well as giving or recieving oral...still was that really the topic?..lol.

[The Wang Master]

I don't see why a girl would like anal, no prostate back there. Then again, some girls like it really rough. right Aoi?

[nightsavior]

indeed studies indicate what you have said to be true. still fairy, i don't know a mans ass is just flat and unattractive. it's a shame women don't get more pleasure from anal than men. back on track though as i said before...i think sex is overated and while it maybe pleasurable i'm sure it's not the best thing out there. also you gotta be careful who you do it with. masturbation and cyber will tide me over until tara my gf gets here.

[The Wang Master]

are you kidding me, I've seen some pretty cute guys, that if I was gay I'd so be groping.

[nightsavior]

lol.....yeah i guess i've seen pretty guys too. mostly in video games. i thought kuja from ff9 was a hot chick until someone broke the news to me. i guess i do find some guys to be beautiful but it's more like "damn i wish i had your built body and perfect hair!" so it's me wishing i looked more like them so i could find myself to be more attractive.

[Zelphiel]

i thought kuja from ff9 was a hot chick until someone broke the news to me.


I did when I saw the first pictures of him before the game came out. I thought it was cool that they had another woman for a villain... then I found out it was a guy in a silver thong. :lancy

[Setzophone]

Yeah, Kuja also fooled me...

[Laggy]

yeah...i think alot of people that he was a chick, lol...

but i've never found IRL guys to be hoy, nore would i ever have sex with one, and i dont even think about it
and i would not have sex with a girl in the ass, i want a chick and like sex in her pussy, if i wanted ass i'd go gay.

[nightsavior]

look at johnny depp....if he was a chick...he'd be hot. ok i'll shut up now. lol.

[Laggy]

no he wouldnt....>_>

theres really no guys i find "hot" there are a few..err ok looking guys like..damn i bet he gets alot of girls... but not in the way where if i was a girl i'd fuck em, cause if i was a girl i'd be lesbo

[nightsavior]

note i said if he was a chick...if you look at depps facial features they are somewhat feminine.

[Zelphiel]

look at johnny depp....if he was a chick...he'd be hot. ok i'll shut up now. lol.


um... no. he'd be a hella ugly woman.

[Kaffee]

um... no. he'd be a hella ugly woman.

Doesn't anyone remember him in ED WOOD, dressed in drag, there nothing hot about him.

[nightsavior]

lol. obivosly some ppl are insecure about their masculinity. ok, maybe depp isn't the best example...i'm just saying some men look very feminine. i mean look at leonardo dicaprio...if he was dressed like a chick i couldn't tell if he was really a guy. also ranmaru from onimusha 3 looks like a woman...first time i saw him i thought he was a girl that had gotten kidnapped by nobunaga. only after the storyline let me know "he" was a guy did i find out the truth. still, that doesn't mean i'd do a drag queen. but men can be attractive whether its because you want to look as good as them or if your gay...wanting to do them. heck i wish i looked like dante from dmc or wesley snipes...but that's not gonna happen i'm afraid. lol.

[The Wang Master]

To Wong Foo, thanks for everything

[nightsavior]

wong foo? unfamaliar with him fairy...is he an actor or is it some kind of art form where men try to look feminine?

[The Wang Master]

no it's a movie numbnuts I thought everyone has seen it. Maybe you just aren't cool.

[Zelphiel]

I forgot about that movie. I haven't seen it in several years. John Leguizamo is funny as hell in it.

[nightsavior]

hey, i know for a fact i'm not cool. lol. that's obivous from my profile. hmmm proably should see it if lath is right about it being that funny. never had my nuts numb though...man it'd freak me out..i'd be worried they'd fall off if there was no sensation in them. wow. major shifts in topic here. guess we butchered johhny's post. lol. sorry man.