In Loving Memory...

[Twilight]

..i didnt really know where i should put this so i put it here...

i would like to.. have this thread in memory of my cousin....who died last night in a car accident.... they took him to the hospital....his heart failed and they worked on him for 45 minutes trying to bring him back.....but no luck... he died... even though this is going to be closed at some point... i want my cousin and everyone here to know that i love him..

[Laggy]

dude.. im sorry...

but it just seems very odd that somone dies that you know... every week...

i dont know what to say about it.. i mean, im not going to say anything mean about it bacause... well if it is true then that wouldnt be nice at all... but damn man, your family cant drive worth shit.. sorry but./. they all die in car crash' they just...

*makes it so mahar cant ever drive* ..there, now your save :)

[Twilight]

hehe well i dont know whats going on.... my cousin 5 years ago died in a car crash his friend was drunk and he didnt wear a seat belt my moms best friends husband and his nepew in a car accident at like 5 am then my other cousin from the exact same family last night.....he was goign to his appartment in madison and he got sick a car hit his car his roomate took him to the hospital on the way there his heart stopped and they tried bringin him back for 45 minutes but he died...he used to baby sit me as well...

[Tiffany]

sorry to hear that mahar *gives u big hug*

[Gravity]

Oh.... I'm sorry, m8.
It's happening accidents all the time.. it's so sad.. :(

[Twilight]

i know... i dont know whats going on.... car accident have happend so many time in the past month...

[Gravity]

Well.. I hope your poke, Mog's bounce and Cawky's cheese will cheer you up.. :)

[Laggy]

:bounce :poke :cheese ^_^ cheers!

[Twilight]

lol thanks guys but see i dont care what people will now think of me cuz im sad it wont bother me cuz now everyone knows that i love my family and i love you guys too ^_^ lol(not the bad kind of love tahts yuckies >.< love liek family borhter sister that way)

[Zelphiel]

I'm sorry to hear that Mahar. If you need someone to talk to just pm or im me.

[Twilight]

thanks :) i am glad that i got people here to go to...

[Zelphiel]

no problem....

[Twilight]

how long can we keep this thread open out of curiosity

[Laggy]

how ever long, it doesnt matter, posts are off in this forum

[Twilight]

ok thanks guys :)

[Lancet Jades]

May he rest in peace...

[Wallie Wildo]

sorry to hear that man you know im here of you want to talk

[Kaffee]

Man that sucks, stay strong dude.

[Leknaat]

I'm sorry to hear about that Mahar. I just now saw this thread. You know you can talk to me anytime.

[The Wang Master]

shit happens and then you die. . .whoops

I would say I do care, but I don't. It's nice that you care though, why you feel we need to know how you feel is beyond me.

I really think you are an attention whore.

[Twilight]

haha.... kinda knew youd say that nope its just i love my cousin and i want to have some stuff dedicated to him and people think im always goofing around and i am showing them i care about things unlike you i dont care for the attention

[Dark Marmosett]

Yeah I know how you feel about close relatives dieng because I only had 2 die so far that made me pretty upset. My Dads dad and my dads dads brother in law. Both very nice and both died in a very sad way. But I'm sorry to hear that your cousin died. Hope nothing else goes wrong. Also nobody say that phrase becuase it always can get worse if you say it. And if something bad happens becuase someone said it. I'll say this in advance. I told you so.

[Lancet Jades]

shit happens and then you die. . .whoops

I would say I do care, but I don't. It's nice that you care though, why you feel we need to know how you feel is beyond me.

I really think you are an attention whore.
Whats wrong with making a thread dedicated to his cousin's memory? If you think its pointless, then just dont read it, or post in it.

And mahar, glad to see you don't take fairy seriously anymore ^_^

[Laggy]

Fairy: "I really think you are an attention whore."

you know, sorry to say this, but thats what i was thinking at first when he made this thread, and the last one he made aswell.. i mean, he says so many people had died in the last month, 2 days later another one does in the same way that must the others did....

but after talking to him, and the fact that i do trust him, i dont think thats what it is, maybe a little, but i do think he is telling the truth

[Twilight]

i am guys trust me.... anyone who doesnt believe me is welcome to come up for the funeral which is tomorrow i was just at visitation around 15 minutes ago

[Lancet Jades]

Besides, so what if he's an attention whore? If he is, and it annoys you, just dont pay any attention to him.

But, whats wrong w/ making a thread dedicated to the memory of a friend or relative that died? It isnt like he stuck it somewhere it doesnt belong. This is the right forum for something like that.

Like i said fairy, and everyone else, if you dont have something nice to say in a thread like this, don't say anything at all. If i see an innappropriate post again, i'm hard deleting it

[Laggy]

like i said, i trust him, and feel sorry for him aswell. and mahar, once more, NEVER DRIVE, ITS SAVER THAT WAY!!! :bounce..
good luck with everything man, and tomorrow, i'll be thinkin about you

[The Wang Master]

how was that innapropriate, I want some corpse photos? Can't believe you deleted that.

You believe what you want, I want proof, then I'll give sympathy.

[Twilight]

thanks Laggy i couldnt take very much today at visitation it was an open casket... it wasnt too easy..

ok Fairy come on up here ill prove it all to you

[Zelphiel]

Fairy, from the way it looks you're the attention whore. You've been warned.

[Dark Marmosett]

Yeah its always hard to see the person in the open casket just lying there and...oh just talking about an open casket with a relative in it brings tears to my eyes. Its just to hard to let them leave. But its for the better. I am sorry for what happened to your cousin and hope that nothing like that ever happens again.

[The Wang Master]

okay fine, since the general consensus is that you really did lose a relative I'll give in and say my condolenses, stop using the word corpse, and then say something odd.

It's sad to lose someone because with the time we invest with them we invest ourselves, somehow connecting ourselves to them through memories or feelings. When they die, when they are gone they take a part of us with them, as we keep a part of them in us. . .memories and so forth. Through that may they live on in this world, through text or images or thoughts.

NOW FOR SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT


If death is such a bad thing, why do we continue to do it. . .let alone cause it?

[Dark Marmosett]

Becuase we are meant to die someday. And that was a very sentimental thing you said. It brought a tear to my eye. But Also when you lose a relative you just don't lose a family member you also lose a friend. A friend that won't ever thing your weird or dumb becuase they are you family and the same way vise versa. Losing a relative and crying is said to make you stronger inside even though you show signs of weakness by crying. But if you get over it sooner the more determined you are not to give up and have hope that they have a better life in the after one.