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Chaos Theory
05-30-2004, 11:16 PM
Do you really believe in such a thing?

Lancet Jades
05-30-2004, 11:26 PM
I think that the basis for true love can be found at first sight, but for true love to develop, it needs time.

Chaos Theory
05-30-2004, 11:27 PM
opps I was too busy flooding the froums that I forgot to say what I think
I think it all all lust

Wallie Wildo
05-30-2004, 11:41 PM
no i do not beleve in love at first sight

Lancet Jades
05-30-2004, 11:42 PM
Yeah, the physical factor of a relationship can be determined at first sight, but thats about it.

Zelphiel
05-30-2004, 11:49 PM
yeah, I agree. I do think that quite a bit can be determined after the first conversation though... because for things lasting longer than an hour or so personality and intelect are important. they are to me anyway.

Chaos Theory
05-30-2004, 11:51 PM
oh yeah

1st convo is important but not when you 1st see them though

Leknaat
05-31-2004, 12:16 AM
I believe in physical attraction at first sight but not love.

Saberstar
05-31-2004, 12:19 AM
I don't believe in it.

Aoi Asahina
05-31-2004, 11:24 AM
No, but lust at first sight...

idgaf rpgfan
05-31-2004, 12:05 PM
Lust at first sight, love requires more that a visual attraction.

Twilight
05-31-2004, 01:00 PM
i believe in it it happened to me and my girlfriend i saw her and i couldnt belive myself

Chicken Little
05-31-2004, 07:26 PM
yes but see your an ancestor of the dinosaurs your brains in ur ass.

No i dont believe in it.

Tiffany
05-31-2004, 07:29 PM
i already made this thread a while back...but anyways, no not really..i believe in lust at first sight, not love

Chicken Little
05-31-2004, 08:11 PM
yeah well we dont care until you get laggys name out of your name :p

Laggy
06-03-2004, 05:00 PM
i think that love at first sight is somthing everyone thinks about in the wrong way, ok if i see some girl, and fall in love with her right then and there, thats me loveing her looks, not who she is, BUT if i meet a girl, and fall in love with her after a little time spent with her, where its not her looks that im after, but for who she is..bewing that its the same day, i think that was what is meant when they first started saying "love at first sight"..if not, then people judge to much on looks, and not everything that really matters...which, alot of time that does happen too...but IMO its not first sight in that maner, cause i dont care about looks..so i really dont see how that would work, i guess its up to who, and how you are =/

Kaffee
01-06-2005, 03:34 AM
yeah I do.

Wallie Wildo
01-06-2005, 03:41 AM
my oppionins changed lol yes i do the first time i saw mary i knew i would like to talk to her and thought we would get along (it wasnt looks there was just something that mades me want to talk to her)

Dark Luther
01-06-2005, 03:02 PM
Everyone points out that you can't fall in love from just looks, and that's all that is possible at first sight. But I believe much can be told from a first sight, much more than just looks. I won't go so far as to say you can judge someone on looks, but I believe in some cases, very rare cases, there is a connection and understanding of someone's identity;
and perhaps what you see in these cases is not their looks but perhaps something else, like a fate.

But like the Japanese poet Ikkyo said,
There are too many perverted and vain people out there who think or are though of as romantic; and I'm one of them.

The Deity
01-06-2005, 03:10 PM
I don't. All your basing your love on is by what you've seen of the person, and stereotypes.

Stormtrooper
01-06-2005, 09:34 PM
i guess, not really that much

Setzophone
01-06-2005, 09:38 PM
no... the girl i like I've known for a couple years now and i didn't have strong feelings for her untill recently. Lust at first sight?... yeah Love at first sight?.... no

Magus
01-06-2005, 10:02 PM
Nah I don't believe in that. You have to get to know them to actually truly love them. Now if you look at a girl and go "wow liek she is so freakin' hawt," then you're a pervert, not a gentleman. If you judge a girl without even getting to know her first, you are a serious dumbass.

Rick_dowg2099
01-07-2005, 03:41 AM
yes and no i guess depends on where you are and what you are both doing at that time and stuff

Spartan God
01-07-2005, 08:26 PM
No, you got to get know them.

Gin
01-07-2005, 10:03 PM
no... the girl i like I've known for a couple years now and i didn't have strong feelings for her untill recently. Lust at first sight?... yeah Love at first sight?.... no


Corey likes...umm...I'm not gonna say!! I don't know if I believe in love at first sight...I'm not even sure if I believe in love... : (

Dark Marmosett
01-10-2005, 08:53 PM
I don't beleive int love at first sight....yuo can't just love a person and be happy by the way they look.....if you like the way they look and find out yuo really hate their personality....then that would suck......to love a person is for their image is partially vain and part selfish. You have to look past their looks and see what kind of person they really are inside....not literally....but if they are a good, kind, caring person who can understand, forgive, and accpet when things can get confusing, missunderstood, and harsh.

Sparky
01-13-2005, 07:59 AM
A very good point there, gdw.

Yes, I agree - it's not just about the looks. It would be crap ending up marrying a really hot chick, and then discovering that she is really a bitc* inside.

Dark Marmosett
01-13-2005, 11:30 AM
Thats why you have to know the person better before going any fatrher with them....see...my girlfriend was a very beautiful person........but also she was a person that you could stand for the rest of your life as well....she understood and she was caring......she was the right one...............I don't want to talk about it anymore......................

Dionne
01-13-2005, 11:35 AM
I don't beleive int love at first sight....yuo can't just love a person and be happy by the way they look.....if you like the way they look and find out yuo really hate their personality....then that would suck......to love a person is for their image is partially vain and part selfish. You have to look past their looks and see what kind of person they really are inside....not literally....but if they are a good, kind, caring person who can understand, forgive, and accpet when things can get confusing, missunderstood, and harsh.

I agree, 100%.

Ricdeau
02-06-2005, 06:27 AM
Love at first sight is shallow. How much can you tell from a persons looks? Not much, only if they are attractive or ugly, really. You can make assumptions about people from the way they look but a lot of the time the assumptions are wrong.

Apistat Commander
02-06-2005, 03:34 PM
Love at first site doesn't exist. You cannot develop a feeling as strong as love just like that. Lust, maybe, but not love.

The.Black.Knight
02-27-2005, 11:33 PM
Love at first site eh? Well, I think a person can think they can fall in love at first site. But to actually fall in love, you need time. You need to get to know someone before you even think you are in love with them. Love at first site kind deals with the phrase 'You can't judge a book by its cover'. I mean, yo can look at the person and say you love them, but in reality, their personality could turn out to be the worst you've ever seen...So, no I don't believe in love at first site.