do you cyber?

[nightsavior]

since there have been alot of threads on sex lately i was wondering how many ppl have cybered or enjoy cybering? to me words can be very stimulating sexually and the fantasy of cybering turns me on. also if you are with someone and cyber outside the relationship is it cheating? a friend asked me this and i could't really give her an answer. i guess it's ok so long as you don't physically cheat on your partner and that u don't let the cyber relationship take priority over your real relationship. personally i think cybering can be fun. any other opinions?

[Laggy]

i use to cyber alot more then i do now, but yeah..at times, but i only cyber with girls im really going out with, no real girl + cyber girl..they have to be the same girl lol

[Aoi Asahina]

I use to cyber a lot, but now I have cooled down. It's fun and I actually like it more than dealing with a person. I dont think it is cheating if a person does that inside a relationship... TRUE PENETRATION IS CHEATING. For me... sex with words is a whole lot better, than sex plain by itself

[nightsavior]

well i stopped cybering other girls after i met tara. if a girl was to cyber me she'd have to know it is just for fun, not for developing something more serious. i already have a serious relationship now so i'm sticking to my guns. the problem i see is some ppl take cybering too intimately. i think it should be mainly for roleplay unless both ppl involved have a desire to get to know each other more.

[Saberstar]

I've only did it like 3 times. Out of boredome. I wasn't the one who started it though. Oh and one of them is Laggy. <_< I think he was drunk that night.

[Laggy]

LIES! LIES! LIES! LIES! LIES!.....not true, very not true, lies i say!....

really kenny, you know that was cammy

[Aoi Asahina]

Sure... whatever you say....

[nightsavior]

heh heh....well i'm sure i've cybered guys who were pretending to be girls so i cannot really judge others..lol.

[Saberstar]

the 2nd one was Fairy.

[nightsavior]

yeah i bet fairy is hot when he pretends to be a chick. lol. i haven't pretended to be a chick yet but perhaps i should to get some lesbian cyber. :chuckle

[Laggy]

yeah you all think what you want, but anyone smart or that knows me knows kenny is lieing.... lol but go on, joke , i dont care...(i shall get you all back for this mwahahahaha)...

[Aoi Asahina]

I've cybered as both.. I get a kick out of that

[nightsavior]

so do u prefer lotsa storyline with your cyber or just kinky foreplay and hot erotic sex?

[Aoi Asahina]

storyline... I've been use to RPing so I'm use to it by now and foreplay

[Saberstar]

How erotic. I don't want to know. I'm sure Fairy has sent you a naughty pic of him to you...

[nightsavior]

i rp as well so yeah storyline can be important. though sometimes when i'm horny i'd imagine i'd want to cut to the chase..lol.

[Leknaat]

No I never have. There's nothing wrong with it..I just never have. I don't really talk to that many people online anyway.

[nightsavior]

it's ok leknaat cybering is not everyone's cup of tea. most prefer the real thing not that i can blame them. lol.

[Leknaat]

well I'm not saying I'd never do it...I just never have before.lol

[Saberstar]

I understand. There's really no point. But you might if you have a deep relationship with someone that you know on the net. Of course, if you just do it with anyone out of boredome, then that's just sort of lame and sick.

[Leknaat]

Yeah it would have to be with someone I know...I had someone IM me out of the blue one time and ask that...he kept harassing me to the point that I had to change my screen name...>_>

[Saberstar]

OMG, it wasn't me. I SWEAR!!!!!!!! <_< >_>
How long ago was this?

[nightsavior]

yeah even when i did cyber i did it with ppl i knew. ppl that just "asl" me out of the blue kinda piss me off. unfortunatelly girls get propositioned for cyber to the point it is ridiculous. general hint..if your a girl that finds herself in a strange chatroom either a. let everyone think your a guy or b. put everyone who ims you on ignore.

[Lancet Jades]

well I'm not saying I'd never do it...I just never have before.lol
What do you call last night then????? HUH?!!?!?!?!!?! lol, sorry, couldnt resist...

Lol...umm..yes, i have, although only a few times.

[Rick_dowg2099]

i used to rp cyber but it dosent do anything for me..<is to used to the real thing lol

but if a girl wants to turn her cam on and wants me to turn mine on its all good lloll

[Tiffany]

i have before..haven't in a while tho

[Wallie Wildo]

nope i dont why cyber when theres porn huh answer that :D

[Link]

because porn is just watchin, cybering gets you closer to the real thing.

[Saberstar]

*cybers Link* XD

[Wallie Wildo]

how do you figure that its better then porn if you do i think you need to rethink because cybering IMO is pretty stupid ive dont it like once and didnt see the reason when you could be looking at porn or watchin it lol ive been a naughty cheese monky whod like to spank me :D

[Chicken Little]

*i put on my robe and wizard hat*

^_^ pissed off soo many ppl with that when they wanted to cyber, but yeah ive done it pfft no biggie.

[Lancet Jades]

*i put on my robe and wizard hat*

^_^ pissed off soo many ppl with that when they wanted to cyber, but yeah ive done it pfft no biggie.
This just proves some things are better left unknown ^_^

[Chicken Little]

what you simply ask if they wanna cosplay and then they start off you come up with that and they get all 'wtf be serious you ****in ****' and leave

[Saberstar]

Yes, meand Fly cyber every night. :love

[Leknaat]

In answer to the question you asked...I was 15 or 16 when this happened and the guy that was harassing me was 40...

[nightsavior]

ewww sorry about that krystle. me i'm a pervert but a friendly one. lol. well overall your time can proably be better spent elsewhere especially since your a talented artist!

[Lancet Jades]

In answer to the question you asked...I was 15 or 16 when this happened and the guy that was harassing me was 40...
Ouch...poor you...

[Zelphiel]

cyber sex is the dumbest bs i've ever encountered.... I tried doing it once, and it did nothing for me.

[Laggy]

lol its all up to who its with, and rather or not you really know who ever your doing it with, like i said, i only do it with whoever im dateing, this is cause that way i can get a pic' of it in my head...that in i see alot of things as cheating when others dont see it as cheating =/

[Zelphiel]

this is how I look at it...

cyber sex is like phone sex for the deaf. there's a little substance to phone sex because you can listen to a sultry voice seduce you. I'm not a textaphilliac...

[Laggy]

lol, yeah..you make a good point..how sad are we to get off on text lol..though i never really did, meh somtimes..but like i said in my first post..i dont do it anymore cause its not fun lol

phone sex can be pritty fun though, i cant lie about that lol

[Aoi Asahina]

*i put on my robe and wizard hat*

^_^ pissed off soo many ppl with that when they wanted to cyber, but yeah ive done it pfft no biggie.

OMG!!!! THAT WAS YOU..... LOL

[Chicken Little]

o.o.......i didnt do it i sware...unless you were turned on then i did it

[Aoi Asahina]

Hmm... so it wasnt you...

[Chicken Little]

no alas it wasnt....there are many who use that trademark....most of them stole it off other people also, and thus the whole stealing of phrases leads to many young women who want to cyber being told about the robe and wizard hat.

ahhh the memories.

but no i dont have you added to my buddy list so it couldnt possibly be me

[Saberstar]

it was me...:D

[Aoi Asahina]

it wasnt you, little one

[Saberstar]

it was directed to Fly. LOL since i'm on his buddy list.

[Chicken Little]

have you really had that line used on you??

[Saberstar]

what...? o_O

[Chicken Little]

i was talking to Aoi lol i havent used that one on you yet ;)

[Saberstar]

Now i'm a bit curios what you'll use on me. >_<
*looks at your mood. then looks at mine.* O_O

[Chaos Theory]

Cyber? there was this one time lol

I got some chick just out of now where added me and the 1st thing she said was I want you so bad right now

I was all wtf?

but yeah

[Chicken Little]

that wasnt a chick

[Chaos Theory]

nope it was taryn :D

[Chicken Little]

ohho ouch and here yuo are going after her sister...i bet it runs in the family lover boy.

[nightsavior]

lol. well, normally i'd take you up on that offer tina but i've been having bad experiences of late. i think alot of girls like foreplay before the main course whereas i just like jumping into the actual sex part. i'm actually good at elaborate roleplaying it's just that i "roleplay" with my friends playing ultranet worlds every weekend at my favorite gaming store so when i get onto my computer i'm already burnt out. lol. also i have a gf whom i love very much and i have been questioning whether or not cybering is cheating even though it's not the physical act itself. if i DID cyber a girl she'd have to understand i'm in a relationship so there is no chance of it developing into something futher. also she'd have to like my cybering style which seems to get most other girls to run away. lol.

[Lancet Jades]

I would consider cyber cheating too, especially if my relationship was an online one (which it is..)

[nightsavior]

yeah, it's a fine line. physically i'd never cheat on tara though. i'm a traditionalist when it comes to saving myself for the one i love. as for cybering its a tug of war issue for me. a part of me says it's not cheating but apart of me does. (shrugs) i suppose its ok so long as the other girl in question "knows" your in a serious relationship so you won't lead her astray. cybering in that case is good so long as you and her see it as fun but don't let it esculate into something beyond that. normally i just cyber with my gf. but when she's gone lengthy amounts of time it gets hard to hold back. still physically "doing it" with another girl for me is out of the question. i'd be guilty and miserable afterwards.

[Lancet Jades]

when i cyber with ppl they dont use long words they normally just right a little sentence lol
Yeah, lol. I mean, if you take the time to write out long words and stuff, it kinda defeats the purpose some =/=/

[Silly Girl]

Yes, I do. Do you wanna?





(j/k guys XD)

[Lancet Jades]

Yes, I do. Do you wanna?





(j/k guys XD)
Ok manda =^.^=

Oh wait...you're joking? Wait, are you joking about doing it, or wanting to do it w/ me?

:confused

[Chaos Theory]

that was mean manda lol you got my hopes up for nothing

[Lancet Jades]

I guess manda's just a big tease

XD

[~KB~]

never done it before

[Quel Thalas]

i have cybered before, with both sexes...to say the least, its more interesting with a chick

[Link]

Ive actually never done it. :uhhh

Me and my ex did things close to it but we never really cybered. :lancy

[Lancet Jades]

Ive actually never done it. :uhhh

Me and my ex did things close to it but we never really cybered. :lancy
Your...ex...? But...you're only like...13....*explodes*

[Laggy]

lol poor lades. i had my first girl when i was 12...and she was my X when i was 12 too=/

[Lancet Jades]

lol poor lades. i had my first girl when i was 12...and she was my X when i was 12 too=/
Well, yeah, but you're 18 now. He's still 13. So, it has much more of an impact.

=/=/=/

[Laggy]

oh, well..thats true lol

[Lancet Jades]

She's probly joking about both >.>;;;