Which do you long for?

[Chaos Theory]

Which do you long for?

A long term relationship or a short noe?

I have haad a few short ones and because of that it has given me the ugre to have a long term

[Leknaat]

All of mine have been short term. I would like to have a long term one.

[Wallie Wildo]

short term i just want one night stands lol

[Lancet Jades]

Long term, definitely.

[Laggy]

i have had alot of both, and now im ready to stay in the one im in and never have another...no more starting over and shiz for me...its like, being new to it over and over again every time you get a new girl lol...i dont ever want that agin..tiffy for life ^_^

[Zelphiel]

short term. I have no reason or desire at this point in my life to commit myself to anyone in a romantic relationship.

[Chicken Little]

can i just say one in general? I mean hey im all for the longness dont get me wrong but HEY!! GUY OVER HERE! LIKE ME!!

[Rick_dowg2099]

iv had both i would say get to know the person realllyyyyyyyy goooooddddd before gettin in to deep cus i went out with a girl for 3 and a half years and when she broke up with me she acted like she dident know me it fuked my mind all up , after all we had been through ...and i thought she was the one yo we where almost ingaged lol

[nightsavior]

yes i'm a kinky bastard but despite that i admit i agree with lades i rather be in a long term. theres just something more fulfilling if there is more to the relationship than hot sordid sex. i don't just want to screw a girl constantly then break up with her then go to someone else..that would get old fast. in long term relationships you not only get to be intimate but also you get to become close friends. i know when i'm 60 most likely i'm not gonna have my looks so there better be more to me a girl can like then just my outer appearance. lol. likewise if i love her also for who she is on the inside and the fact we can enjoy each others company they'll be a spark in the relationship even when the novelty of physical attraction has worn off a bit.

[Aoi Asahina]

I have had a long term relationship before, I long for it yet I hate it. I have been in plenty of short term relationships, I was almost smutthered to death by them wanting to be around me all the time. So I say long term, at that time we had space. He didnt need to be around me all the time, which was perfect. Though nothing is ever gold...

[Zelphiel]

Though nothing is ever gold...


yeah, that's very true. Something will always be wrong with a relationship no matter who it's with.

[nightsavior]

well loving someone is about living to deal both with their flaws and good points. i find usaully in short term relationships girls don't even stick around to be a friend after the break up. in long term relationships even if something happens down the road you can still be close though you have gone your seperate ways...well at least that's what i've experienced thus far.

[Lancet Jades]

yeah, that's very true. Something will always be wrong with a relationship no matter who it's with.
Thats true, but if you care about the person enough, you can look past and forgive flaws.

[Zelphiel]

It really depends on what those flaws are. Some of them can't be overlooked, no matter how much I care about someone.

[Lancet Jades]

It really depends on what those flaws are. Some of them can't be overlooked, no matter how much I care about someone.
Well, obviously if two people have too many flaws, it wont work out. But if its only a few small things, its possible to ignore them.

[Tiffany]

i have had alot of both, and now im ready to stay in the one im in and never have another...no more starting over and shiz for me...its like, being new to it over and over again every time you get a new girl lol...i dont ever want that agin..tiffy for life ^_^
long term...i've had long and short term relationships but the one i'm in w/laggy has been the best :love and i'm gonna b w/him the rest of my life :D

[Chicken Little]

oh i think im gonna be sick.

im taking bets i got 5 months tops for those two. :p

*ninja dusts*

[Chaos Theory]

lol I think it has been more than 5 months

I am keeping my comments to myself :P

[Chicken Little]

no 5 months ontop of this from today lol

*ninja dusts*

[Chaos Theory]

lol I kinda figured thats what you might after I posted lol

I am still keeping my comments to myself though lol

[Lancet Jades]

Want me to give you my estimate for fly x taryn?

didnt think so :p

[Chicken Little]

go ahead i dont mind lol i know its based on two things so it really doesnt worry me what timeframe people put on it.

[Wallie Wildo]

i take a piece of that bet ill go a year from now :p

[Ricdeau]

I never thought you were serious with Taryn... are you? I just read the announcements at GW, Addix got married to jackenape in real life. Could happen...

[Chicken Little]

i dont waste time on things let alone online relationships if im not serious. SO yes i am serious about Taryn regardless of what my exterior shows.

[Saberstar]

True and i'm their best man, right? >_< I don't wanna be the flower girl. Let Cammy do it.

[Lancet Jades]

i wanna be the best man!! How else am i to seduce her...

[Chicken Little]

marriage is on the backburner, theres no point thinking about it when we havent even met.

[Chaos Theory]

I call being the boy toy for taryn on her last night as a free woman

[Lancet Jades]

I'll let lades call being the boy toy for taryn on her last night as a free woman
Thanks cammy ^_^

[milly]

ive had one relationship (5 months) he just didnt give me much space so i dumped him, i know sounds biatchy but u would understand wat i mean if u met him (trust me:p) neways i wouldnt mind another relationship lol umm.. ive had a few one nighters lol ;) lol :p neways yep thats me lol

[Chaos Theory]

bastard Lades lol

One nightrers eh

I am free this sunday? :D

[Lancet Jades]

I am free this sunday? :D
No you arent. I've got you on crap detail in spammyland.

[Saberstar]

I PM Lades titled with *rapes you* but he never respond. ;_;

[Twilight]

i am in a long term relationship and i dont crave any of them because im already in one and i like it it will be a year soon :D

[Lancet Jades]

i am in a long term relationship and i dont crave any of them because im already in one and i like it it will be a year soon :D
lucky bastard :(

[Saberstar]

Lades is ignoring me. ;_;

[Twilight]

lucky bastard :(


lol i know well you just gotta find the right person for ya you gotta be a nice type of person be honest ive learned this from past mistakes thats how i have my girl now and i couldnt be anymore happy

[Chicken Little]

oh bull**** you can be nice and honest as hell and get nowhere. Dont gice that crap please im tired of hearing it.

[Lancet Jades]

If being "nice and honest" was all you needed to get a girl, i'd be married right now.

[Laggy]

lol wouldnt we all....well...most of us would....

[Lancet Jades]

I wouldnt mind being married right now, IF i found a girl i really loved. Which hasnt happened yet

[Chicken Little]

lol wouldnt we all....well...most of us would....

no see your a evil sob so you wouldnt be. See the thing was nice and honest not evil and detestable.:p

See myself and lades (cant believe i actually put his name there my god what has the world come to) for what its worth are about the nicest people you would actually meet and for the most part have been totally screwed around because of it. Plus being as blunt as i can be here the majority of people online are a buncha yes men who would screw their own cousin to do anything. So if you take that and draw correlations then im afraid you dont get nice and honest except in about 20% of the people online, and the majority of those are female.

Even though that statement completely contradicts what im trying to say. Im gonna sum it up in a nutshell.

Nice guys dont get the girls, the girls fall for the assholes and the nice guys put up with the after effects because they damn well care. They dont amount to anything more then that because the person doesnt see them in that way.

GAAAAAAAAAAAAAH now you got me all mad.

[Saberstar]

You forgot to mention me. lol oh screw that.

I'll make it easier to understand. Girls fall for stupid guys. Then when the guy gets tired with her, he dumps her. Leaving the girl a scar. The girl would still end up liking that guy, most of the time anyway. And it's hard to forget, especially if it's youe first relationship. Alas, and when the girl do somehow forget, she fears that the one she is looking for might end up doing the same as to what her ex did in the past.

But that's not all guys. I'm just saying some...
And most good guys can't get girls. Reason being is that the girl feels comfortable being with that guy, and she just thinks of him as someone who will be their all the time to comfort her when she needs someone.

[idgaf rpgfan]

The only time I've met someone I would want a relationship with was when I just didn't care and wasn't looking, when I would go out looking I'd never find anyone.

[Miles]

Long term...But I'm in a forever relationship...So I guess I don't really long for either.

[Kurbee]

Want. A. Long. Term. One.

[Bloozilla]

Long-term...

[Grave Wisdom]

I'd GREATLY prefer long-term, assuming we both love eachother.