Homosexuality...

[Lancet Jades]

First off, this thread is on strict ZT. If you don't beleive me, just try something. The punishment for a violation of this ZT will be a 3 day ban, NO EXCEPTIONS (So don't even ask, for you have been warned. This ZT is regardless of rank)

*edit*... if there is a second offense in this thread you will be banned permanantly.

-Lathan

Throughout discussions w/ people, I have noticed that a lot of people seem to think homosexuality is a choice, whereas I beleive it is born into people. What I wish to know is, for those people who beleive it to be a choice, WHY?

If you beleive homosexuality is a choice, please post your definitive explanation here. Include every possible sociological and psychological possibility you can think of. Also, you CAN include religious views into your explanation, but it can NOT be the entirety of your explanation.

Do NOT post your "opinion" in here. If your explanation consists of "It a choice because thats what i think" or some other claim without a rational theory, then it will be considered spam. Also, do NOT display malevolence towards homosexuals, as that will not be tolerated either. This is NOT a debate, you are not arguing your opinion, merely explaining why YOU think homosexuality is a choice. Only ONE (1) post per person, please. You are NOT responding to people who posted before you either. Also, if you beleive it is BORN into people, then do not post either.

[Wallie Wildo]

i beleve its a choice because thats what i beleve





nah had you going there for a minete lol





i do beleve its a choice because some homosexuals actully take most of thier life to finnaly become a homosexual i beleve that the born a homosexual is bs because were you born a good leader lades no you became one from experiance and what you have learned you learn to become a homosexual you are not born
i know this wasnt that long and hope it isnt consider spam or an offense because i have NOTHING against homosexuals

[Aoi Asahina]

I believe that homosexuality is a choice.
In religion it is a choice. For those who believe that people are born that way usually dont realize that people control their destinies. They are not born into it. Sometimes people are born with more of the opposite sex's hormones that makes them feel a certain way for the same sex, but if they grew up in a truly religious enviroment somehow they would have figured out that they can change.

[The Wang Master]

I don't think it is a choice, most of the people I asked say they just realized they were gay.

The problem is, we are all born with the preconception we are strait. No one is born gay and says, "I've been living a lie, I'm really strait." No, because society says that you are strait since you are born. Girls are gross to begin with because. . .why did we run from girls when we were little, and why did they have cooties?

It's a complicated thing and it's more of an individual basis. Some guys are strait but don't like the idea of sex, period. It probably is the same way with gay people, because they are people just the same, not all of them are horny.

I don't really see anything wrong with homosexuality or sexuality. It's all about mutual masturbation, in a sexually repressed society that still veiws masturbation as evil and gross.

[nightsavior]

hmmm i thought we covered this ground. well, homosexuality is not wrong. it's one of those things if you are you cannot help being. i may not understand gay ppl but like any group there are nice ones and those who are arse holes. i agree fairy...we are a sadly sexually repressed and homophobic society...guess we haven't broken away completly from the victorian era afterall..lol.

[Ricdeau]

I think its a choice. The reason being is that when you are born you know nothing. All you have is your genes. As you grow you learn things, and you learn to make decisions. When you're old enough you can decide if you are straight or gay or bisexual, and it's your preference of people. When you're born you havnt met anyone, so how could you already have a preference of gender?

[Laggy]

well, i think i could understand how someone might be born gay after looking into it, i understand how they could be born with so much of the other sex' hormones, i also see how they could be born with somthing wrong (maybe not wrong, but not the same as always) in there brain.

this would only make me think that being gay is nothothing more then a sickness, and even a gay would tell you not to think that, lol

in all i think that all of the studies are just people trying to make being gay seem right, and i have heard way to many gay people talk to much about WHY it isnt wrong, only makes me think that they feel they have to come up with things to make it seem right so that they dont feel wrong about it

overall i dont think theres a way its a birth thing, like others have said in this thread.. you have to learn things... even being gay is somthing people pick up..most of them prolly pick it up in school, or in SC..sorry, im from NC, we have jokes about SC >_>

[shalrema]

In my opinion, one is not born homosexual. However, noone is born heterosexual either. Because of the hoices we make, choices tohse who raise us make, and the envrionments that we are raised upder, form babysitters to breastfeeding, form grandparents to baseball games, our upbringings help to guids us to the paths we take in life, be it sexuality or career choice. Still, though, there are choices in this realm that we ourselves have to make,. in this way, we are predisposed to things, and we choose how we react to these things.

[idgaf rpgfan]

I don't think it's a choice, I've known quite a few gay men and all that I know say that they spent the first part of their life denying it. Even to the point of becoming a womanizer to prove to themselves that they aren't gay. If it were a choice then the gays that I know wouldn't be gay.

[Ryw]

In my opinion, one is not born homosexual. However, noone is born heterosexual either. Because of the hoices we make, choices tohse who raise us make, and the envrionments that we are raised upder, form babysitters to breastfeeding, form grandparents to baseball games, our upbringings help to guids us to the paths we take in life, be it sexuality or career choice. Still, though, there are choices in this realm that we ourselves have to make,. in this way, we are predisposed to things, and we choose how we react to these things.Seconded. Stupid 10 character limit.

[Leknaat]

I don't think it's a choice at all. I know quite a few gay people and they did not choose to be gay. They simply are. I've had one tell me before that if it had been a choice he would not have been gay at all because of all the ridicule he had to go through growing up and then dealing with family who would not accept who he was.

[Lancet Jades]

We have 2 homosexuality discussions here O.o

*closed*

Use the other one >_>