Sex before marriage..... [Archive]

Kurbee

07-14-2005, 05:28 AM

It depends actually...

For me...If I love someone enough and they want to wait, I would wait
If I love someone enough and they wanted to get freaky...well...you know the rest...This may be because I do anything for the one I am with...>.>

Chaos Theory

07-14-2005, 06:51 AM

sex is sex

Making love is different from having sex

Dark Marmosett

07-14-2005, 09:02 AM

Probably should not until after marriage...because then you have sex with your love before you get married....and you wanted to lose your virginity with them and then you break up. Oh well......that would suck.

Kal

07-14-2005, 09:43 AM

You should wait till your married. because then you will be with the one you love. Pretty much what gundam said.

Rainbow Dash

07-14-2005, 11:50 AM

It really doesnt matter for me, with my fetishes, it's kinda hard to find someone who is both the right sexual partner and the right marital partner. There is one I have in mind but my feelings on her are mixed, and I may want to just stay good friends with her... but I won't bore you with my indescisive rantings.

Smartass

07-14-2005, 02:55 PM

I think it's up to you. I'm not waiting.

Seraph Zero

07-14-2005, 07:13 PM

I, on the other hand, do have some regrets about losing my virginity... I kind of wish I would have waited until I found someone I really loved (which I have now, actually). Otherwise, the entire "no sex before marriage" thing is an old and tired tradition set up by the Catholic church, if I'm not mistaken. So yeah, fuck it. Wait until you're in love, if you want it to mean anything. Trust me, you'll regret it otherwise.

Dionne

07-14-2005, 07:19 PM

I could really care less. I only think to have sex with someone, you should be in love. In my opinion, sex isn't something to be taken lightly.

Zelphiel

07-15-2005, 12:24 AM

I really don't care... people will do what they want regardless.

as for my personal oppinion, I don't think it's wrong.

The Deity

07-15-2005, 12:52 AM

I don't really see having sex before marriage as big of a deal as most Christains do. I doubt if I'll lose my virginity before I'm married, but I don't see it as a problem if people do, as long as they are in a relationship with the person and they're not having one night stands.

Tiffany

07-20-2005, 01:16 PM

i lost my virginity about a month after i turned 16....but yeah i think it's ok, as long as u really care about and trust the one ur with.....

Ashe

07-20-2005, 02:43 PM

well i dont see how sex could mess up a relationship too much... to me a relationship is about the mind and heart not your sexual organs... and ive got a fiance right now who i lose my virginity to about 2 weeks into the relationship and it didnt change anything... so i say go ahead why wait

masterchiefty

07-20-2005, 02:46 PM

I'm fine with it, its not doing anything wrong unless your relelgious.

Kain

07-20-2005, 03:02 PM

I say it's fine. Though waiting until you find someone you love is the way ta go. I would rather wait, then regretting being with someone you didn't give a shit about. If the two people love each other, why wait until you're married? Either way is fine I guess. If you love the person you should wait until they're ready though.

Master qwerty

07-21-2005, 03:33 PM

sex is sex

Making love is different from having sex

Heh true that. Making love is definently different from sex. With making love, your intentions are to show your affection to your lover by a complete openness. You transcend the humiliation of Adam and Eve by showing your partner yourself uncloaked to hide the shame.

Sex is simply for making babies. If you want to do that, go ahead. I'm sure the world population wouldn't mind ;)

Honestly I do not believe marriage is all it is claimed to be nowadays what with celebrities being married for a day at a time. Perhaps when marriages are taken more seriously and restriction laws which come with marriage (that or ban celebrities from marrying ;)) I will agree that you not have "sex" or make love before you marry.

But at this time, I can only say that the only way sex is proof that you love someone is if you can wait to have it. That's what sex after marriage was about.

Banshee

07-21-2005, 04:55 PM

I don't see why not. Really, what would it change?

Seraph Zero

07-21-2005, 05:04 PM

I don't see why not. Really, what would it change?
You'd be surprised of what impact it can have on your life, which is why you should wait to find someone you love to lose your virginity with. I mean, it's life changing in a certain sense, but really, it's just another experience, something else to be done. Waiting until marriage is a gyp, really. Waiting until love is the better move to make.

nightsavior

07-21-2005, 08:00 PM

I'd prefer to wait to have sex at least until I got to know a girl very well which could take 4 months or longer. Problem is in our fast paced GO-GO society you often lose a love interest if you wait too long to show you're attracted to her. In my present relationship I had no hang ups about waiting for sex until marriage or even longer. The important thing to me is the girl I'm with feels comfortable so I'm not going to rush it. Sure I'd be horny in the meantime but that is what masturbation and fantasies are for. lol. But each relationship brings with it different circumstances and situations. Sex isn't necessarily something you scehdule and it can just happen out of the blue. Still it is better to have estabalished trust and friendship before it occurs. Don't wait too long to make a move then again don't have it be the first thing you do either.

Miles

11-12-2006, 08:22 PM

Well...Sex before marriage was only a big issue because when it came about...They didn't have contraception and stuff...So the person you had sex with, would be the mother/father of your child, pretty much. They came up with it because people would be having children with everything that moved =/

Anyways. I don't think it's a big deal. If you and your partner are happy to and feel secure enough to...Then you have sex, don't you?
I don't think being married makes much difference.

Kurbee

11-12-2006, 08:24 PM

Anyways. I don't think it's a big deal. If you and your partner are happy to and feel secure enough to...Then you have sex, don't you?
I don't think being married makes much difference.

Agreed..

Too late for me though, unfortunately >.>

Grave Wisdom

11-12-2006, 09:21 PM

I'd like to say that i'm against sex before marriage, but sadly...like most people i'm a horndog.

king kuppy

11-12-2006, 09:27 PM

I think that if you have found someone that you're sure that you'll be spending the rest of your life with, then yeah, who cares.

Grave Wisdom

11-12-2006, 10:09 PM

I think that if you have found someone that you're sure that you'll be spending the rest of your life with, then yeah, who cares.

People say that crap too often, and then leave the person a few days/weeks later. Pretty sad...

Kaffee

11-12-2006, 11:52 PM

I guess not. :D

The Cleric

09-08-2007, 12:49 PM

Too late for me.I've already had sex XD

Dave

09-08-2007, 12:59 PM

Hey, old thread. I say go for it.

Bloozilla

09-08-2007, 01:03 PM

I'm waiting for someone I love, not until marriage.

Whoop That Trick

09-08-2007, 01:17 PM

Eh, I'm cool with sex, but I'd much rather get some good brain. No work, good pleasure. Plus I'm a huge fan of eating pussy, so ya know, it works out. But sex is good too. Just tiring.

Miles

09-08-2007, 01:28 PM

Lancet Jades

09-08-2007, 01:33 PM

I can't even find my post...I swear I posted.

From what I remember, sex before marriage was actually something that they made up for a different reason to what most people think.
Maybe it was done partly to make it special but that's only a fraction of the reason.

As for me. I believe in waiting but not quite that long.
But you really should save yourself for that special someone. You should respect your body. At least, that's what I think.
You probly deleted it for whatever reason. I cleared out all the soft-deleted posts/threads a while ago, hence why you couldnt even see it like normal when deleted o.o

Either that, or it's a different thread.

Miles

09-08-2007, 01:35 PM

You killed my post T_T I killed my post!

Oh! How could you?!

I'm sure it was long, dull and no one read it, though.
Either that or I was worried that someone was going to attack me for it. >.>; I get that alot.

Kaffee

09-08-2007, 05:54 PM

I'm not against sex before marriage, my parents are however, I am against pregnacy before marriage, you have to be careful. I watched my siblings make that mistake and they each got divorced.

Zelphiel

09-09-2007, 12:58 AM

I can't even find my post...I swear I posted.

From what I remember, sex before marriage was actually something that they made up for a different reason to what most people think.

Virgins were worth more when a marriage was being negotiated.

It also cut down on disease.

Dark Luther

09-09-2007, 03:19 AM

err, why did he reply to this damn thread...?
Wouldn't it have made more sense to simply make a new one than post in one that's over a year old...?

Lancet Jades

09-09-2007, 03:21 AM

err, why did he reply to this damn thread...?
Wouldn't it have made more sense to simply make a new one than post in one that's over a year old...?
Well, it isn't against EF's rules. He could've, but didn't. Though, does it really matter?

mldyxcore

09-11-2007, 02:11 AM

Absistence is great and everything...
but its not for me.
like religion
or having politcal debates.

I've had girlfriends that i didn't have sex with,
but i cant really be as close with them like a girlfriend i do.

Gamerlen

09-11-2007, 07:44 AM

Well... >.>() Its waaaaaaaaaaaaay too late for us. Though seeing as how we've been happily together for two years now we're most likely going to wind up married anyway.